27 Jun, 2021 06:26 PM

Why am I SO boy 'obsessed'?

I am a 15 year old girl... I'm home schooled, and have been for many years. I'm in high-school. I can't help but scope out boys where ever I go... (mall, around the block, church yourth group...) I'm NOT looking for 'the "s" word. I DO look at guys my own age, (NOT older). HELP!!! Is this normal? Or what???

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27 Jun, 2021 06:26 PM

yes, it's very normal, just remember to ALWAYS use condoms, your life is pretty much over if you are a single teenage mom.

27 Jun, 2021 06:26 PM

Completely normal, it's called being a teenage girl. Actually it's called being a GIRL. I'm 23 and still check out guys everywhere I go. It's normal and natural AND I have a boyfriend that I've been with for 6 years. TRUST ME! : ) I hope to be this way until the day I die. lol

Just enjoy it as much as possible.

27 Jun, 2021 06:26 PM

It's perfectly normal to start concentration on boys at your age. I don't believe being homeschooled has anything to do with it. I attended public school and I too was boy crazy.

It's important that you learn to focus your attention on other things and remember that you can choose your thoughts and try to channel your energy into your studies more. While it's normal to obsess over boys, it's not healthy for you. This too is part of becoming a mature adult.

Happy Homeschooling!

27 Jun, 2021 06:26 PM

I remember when I was 15 years old.  I was also home schooled.  Being homeschooled has it's advantages and disadvantages.  I think the obsession you are currently experiencing is due to the closed environment of being at home.  

It's important to have lots of outside/social activities when homeschooling.  It's important to associate with a lot of kids your age.

I think your self-proclaimed obsession with boys is partly because you are homeschooled.  You are probably not around boys enough to get that attention you want from the opposite sex.  

At 15, we begin to want attention and acceptance by our peers.  This may be what you are really looking for.  Your hormones have a factor is this as well.  Your body is starting to gear itself for the adult world of relationships.  That's perfectly normal. 

Make lots of friends, and stay smart.  Don't let your obession with boys take control of your life, and don't let your gaurd down over this.

It's okay to scope out boys.  :)  If you honestly believe it's an obsession, and this obsession is interfering with your quality of life, talk about it with a trusted family member or friend.  Or you can just make lots of friends with boys AND girls.  Remember, boys are just boys.  :)  

Good luck!

27 Jun, 2021 06:27 PM

Yes sweety it is 100% normal all us girls go through or have been through that...Its your hormones and its driving crazy , its a phase  all us females go through... so love it while you still can, this is your golden age you are still young so live it to the fullest, but please dont let any guy take advantage of you during this time. Personally i think its a vulnerable moment for teen girls so for petes sake lol take care xoGL

Source(s): From experience

27 Jun, 2021 06:27 PM

I think when you mature you have new feelings that you tend to focus on because they are new. You could be considering that these new feelings as presenting more problems. I think it could be what Freud said about when people mature and having to adjust their libido with their superego in order to have their desires fulfilled. Which is to say adjusting their self with society, so for instance, instead of becoming a whore or raping someone, a person goes about changing their lives to conform to values of society to get their desires met.

27 Jun, 2021 06:27 PM

Yes very normal..your in mid puberty right , your hormones are flying. So yes its completely normal. That happened to mee too, now that i am married that all stopped. LIke i dont need to roam around and look for men, i found the love of my life. But that was going on until i found my s.o.s. But becareful you want to stay away w/ the  "trashhy guyz" who dont have much respect for woman and use them. I know that age i did not even know who was trash and who wasnt i just went for ever i though "liked " me lol but yhou'll learn.